HOW I GOT HERE
LEARNING THE CURVES
After making the decision to stay home with our son two years ago, I found myself at a crossroads, grappling with how to contribute financially while managing the responsibilities of being a full-time mom. My husband’s income, while steady, was insufficient to cover all our expenses, so I knew I needed to explore additional avenues to support our family.
I dabbled in a few different ventures—freelancing, part-time gigs, and even starting a small in-home daycare. Each attempt came with its own set of challenges, from inconsistent income to balancing these efforts with the demands of motherhood proved to be incredibly taxing. The struggle was real, and I often felt overwhelmed, trying to juggle various roles while maintaining the household.
One of the most profound insights I gained during this time was realizing that a traditional 9-to-5 job often lacks the flexibility and security needed for a fulfilling life as a homemaker. The constraints of a set work schedule limit your earning potential and can mean missing out on precious moments with your children. Although I was eager to leave my 9-to-5 job, I initially struggled with how to make the transition.
Through exploring unconventional income sources and flexible work opportunities, I discovered how to harmonize work and home life in a way that suited our needs. This process was marked by trial and error, but it ultimately led me to a deeper understanding of how to balance financial contributions with being an actively engaged parent. This journey has reshaped my approach to both work and family, highlighting the importance of adaptability and creativity in achieving both financial stability and personal fulfillment.
Our Background
My husband and I got married at 19, had our first child at 20, and our second child at 22. We have simply grown up together while raising babies. I honestly wouldn't choose it any other way. Not that it was easy, but the fact that we have learned to struggled together, grow deeper together, and make a family we both are proud of is something that can't be replaced.
My husband grew up in Ethiopia, He was adopted here in 2011 and spent most of his years just trying to make a way for himself. He thrives off of independence and rebellion but watching him grow into the dad role, I have watched him turn into the best version of himself.
From a young age, I knew I wanted to be a wife and mother. For a long time, I struggled to find a sense of purpose beyond these roles. Although the economy made being a stay-at-home mom seem unrealistic, I found fulfillment as a work-from-home mom. I truly enjoy this role and am grateful for the balance it provides.